The Slow And Sexy Kiss

The Slow And Sexy Kiss

Likewise, as Jehovah is our Heavenly Father and our Creator and we are His creations, we should heed His laws for the same two reasons: for our own good and to return His love. Who else would know what is best for us but our very Life-Giver alone?

The anxiety of being unable to regulate his inner life drives sex addicts to run to his only source of comfort and safety, his “Erotic Haze” where he is shrouded by sexual fantasies, isolation from real-life, and self-soothing. There is also the quelling of an unconscious wish to find the missing, yet crucial tie to the mother figure. He again, unconsciously, fantasizes that he can regain a connection with an idealized “other” who represents the all-powerful yet feared and often despised maternal object. The strategy is doomed to fail. Tragically for him, there IS a real person behind his fantasy and sooner or later other person’s needs, wants and demands start to interfere with his fantasy world. Disappointment, frustration, and loneliness are the result.

Usually the sexiest women don’t call men names and they don’t sympathize with other women about how their men disappoint them. The sexiest women I know sincerely like men. They think men are pretty great. Rather than being threatened by a man’s testosterone, they respect how it makes men different in all the ways that praise women.

"Until you learn to love yourself and take responsibility for making yourself feel good inside, this will continue to happen."

Conquering a guy's penis is one thing, but conquering his mind is an entirely different thing. Any girl can learn the right "techniques" and moves to please a man's physical needs and that's OK, but if you really want to please him like no other woman, you have to conquer his mind. Here's where the right words come in. You have to stop being shy in bed and open up sexually. Men want you to be sexual and "dirty like a Porn star." That includes saying the magic words that will make his brain cells explode from pleasure. "What should I say, when should I say it?" - I can already hear you ask.

Sex addicts use sex just as alcoholics use alcohol: as an anesthetizer that allows them to escape painful realities and as a way to regulate their moods. Like alcoholics, sex addicts turn to sex whenever they feel stress or anxiety. As dependence on the behavior progresses, the sex addicts come to therapy, the present with feeling states that duplicate the feelings of alcoholics who first come to treatment.